Lovelines: Internet dating I’m depressed

Lovelines

I am a keen reader of Lovelines, please allow me to express myself for a possible solution. I met a guy who lives close by me and I was talking to him on the internet for over one year before I finally met him.

I was a virgin and didn’t meet him for the fun but at the heat of the moment,something happened. I have spoken to him since then, but he is not the same person I used to know, he just keeps telling me that he has lot of problems. The dilema is, I am falling for him because he is my first, I feel so lonely. Please tell me what is going on with him, have I done anything wrong?

Sheila

This may be hard to take in, but you have to take heart and move on with your life. You deserve WAY better but it can happen to anyone. I know it’s hard because he was your first, but you should never settle for less and cheap things rather than  the best, you deserve a guy who will never leave you, or hurt you on purpose.

A guy who will always be there for you, and will always love you, no matter what you say or do. If you’re looking for that special guy, you will definitely find him but if you don’t let go of your feelings about him, you will regret it later. Have some self confidence.

There are plenty of fish in the ocean. If a vehicle doesn’t go to Basse remember, others will go. Be Miss Independent and have the guys coming after you. Not the other way around. Well, good luck, I know it’s hard but you will get through this, just give time a chance. In every life we have some troubles but when you worry you make it double. According to the popular musician, Simon Paul, "don’t worry, be happy" and if your happiness lies with this guy, he will come back, if it’s meant to be, it would happen. If not, then he wasn’t the one. I say move on and today you can start your day off with a smile on your face, go out with some of your friends and get to know other guys and have fun. Life is too short to be depressed! Good luck!