Lovelines :I always lie that I love him, …but I need a break

I am dating a guy but I really want to tell him that it is over. I want this because we are not sharing the same religion. Definitely his family deeply likes me. At the same time I am dating a man that I really love. He care for me, I always lie to him that he is the only one I am dating yet he  shows love and care but I don’t know how to tell  him to forget about me

Loumbeh

No matter how heavy a word is it cannot be cut with a knife but with teeth. Tell your lover boy that it is not easy for you to say but you can not continue hiding from him that everything is okay while it is not.

Let him no about your incompatibility mostly when it come to religion and let him know that it will not work because of that you have to put an end to it. He will surely protest with you since he love you but let him know the truth that you always pretend to love him while you are not but your mind is in somewhere else, with time he will understand so far you are able to tell him. Good luck!

Her friend gave me her number

Lovelines

There is a girl that I collected her number from her friend when they visited my compound. I expressed my feeling for her, after 3 months she accepted to go out with me. Since then I always calls and send series of SMS text to her but she never turn up and visit me for a day. What is this girl up to?

Rolland

I think it is high time for you to forget her and move on. If it takes a man three months to prepare for madness, how many months will it take him to enter a market to an extent of his recognition as a mad man? So grow up my guy, the lady doesn’t have your time but you can continue chatting if you have no other better lady in your surrounding maybe one day she will turn up. But I don’t assure you. Good luck!

I don’t know if he will marry me

Lovelines

I am a young lady of 27 been going out with a guy for the past 8 years. We stay together and have a 5-year-old daughter. I don’t really know if he want to marry me or not but any time I talk to him about marriage he will respond negatively. Now I am in love with an old schoolmate we are dating secretly. I love him so much that I am thinking of leaving my child’s father.

Lucy

Really a long relation without assurance and a genuine agreement is nothing better than fun and humiliation. If you have a child with someone still the person is not ready to marry you. If you continue to remain in such relationship it is a time wasting. Instead of you to involve in a secret dating it is better to quit your relation with the father of your child who is not ready to marry you but using you as a bedmate to avoid accusation. But if he is ready to marry you quit the latter relation. At your age he should not expect you not to have bearing and ready to settle down with a man you can introduce and call your husband. Good luck!

I am between the devil and deep blue sea

Lovelines

I am a girl of 18 dating a guy for the past 3 years. He chased me for a whole year before I answered him yes. Another guy is flirting after me, I love him too but I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend feelings. My consideration for this other guy is based on the allegation that friends to my   boyfriend told him that I am not serious and he agreed with them. I am really serious with him but I have made up my mind to answer this other guy. I don’t know what to do I am between the devil and the deep blue sea.

Sharma

You already made up your mind you are only left with execution of your plan. If a woman has not taste one or two men she will find it difficult to judge who is the best. It is your world, if he can believe what his friends had told him about you then tell him the truth that you are ready to get out of the relation since you have no feeling for him any more but for another man. Life is good enjoy it but with care. Good luck!

He wants me to visit him

Lovelines

There is a man I once love dearly and admire but he never mind or care about me. I am now happily married to another man. He (my admirer) now always invites and wants me to come and visit him at home.

Jannah

Visit him for what? Tell this man to go to hell with his love since you are married and still want to date you. He has nothing to offer than having you to fill the hole on his bed. This man wants you to be a temporary succor to his emotional feeling. Think very well and stay away from him if you don’t want to rock your marriage because of unserious man. Good luck!

I don’t know if I love him

Lovelines

I am 19. I have not dated any one for 2 years due to disappointments. Many guys approached me but I normally rejected them but there’s this particular guy who strongly expressed his love for me. Should I accept him? Yet I don’t know if I love him. I am confused tell me what to do.

Haja

Since you do not love this guy why don’t you wait study him and see if you can build love for him. If you still find it difficult to have feeling for him in your heart simply be on your own and let him go. The guy you will love will surely come your way. However you can not love by rejecting everyone that come your way but you can love when you are able to relate with others from there you will have feeling for the one you are attracted to. If you don’t understand this give me call. Good luck!

I am afraid to touch a woman

Lovelines

Any time I want to touch my girlfriend, I am always afraid of her I don’t know the reason? I don’t understand myself I wasn’t like this before with my ex girl but since I found that I love this girl it another story.

Mohammed

Your problem is a simple one. Look for another baby that we not frighten you. But if you want me to answer this to your satisfaction, try to call. Good luck!

He wants to impregnate me before traveling

Lovelines

I love my boyfriend and he loves me too but I never meet his parents except his married elder sister. I ask him to introduce me to his other family member but he keep on saying ‘baby the time is yet to come.’ But now he wants me to conceive for him just because he wanted to travel to oversea since he would not like me to forget him in a hurry and marry someone else while he is away.

Semirah

You haven’t got a person that is ready to marry you without condition. A man of such that thinks of himself alone is a selfish person. He is trying to let you know that he’s not ready to have you as a wife but want you to manufacture a child for him. Many have done it that way and they are regretting it till date. In brief, if he needs a child or children let him marry you unconditionally not because he is traveling and want to have a wife and child behind. Look your surrounding, think deeply, open your eyes and wake up. Good luck!

I don’t want to hurt my friend

Lovelines

There is a man I met with my friend. But this girl (my friend) said they are in love with each other whereas it is a lie. This particular man approached me and said that he loves me. I don’t want to hurt my friend by accepting him to my life what can I do?

Jaka

It is just a matter of confirmation from the man if you have any feeling for him. Ask him what is between him and your friend, tell him what your friend has told you about him and if he denies it bring two of them together to know the truth. Or better still since your friend is interested in him and you do not want to hurt her tell him the truth and encourage him to go for your friend in order to keep the string of the friendship. Good luck!

I still love the boy

Lovelines

Am a gal in my 20s I have being in love with a guy for 3 years. We have a misunderstanding that lasted for one month. One day he called me to come and greet his new girl friend, and I still love the boy! What is your advice on this?

‘Muna

I will advise you to forget him as your lover instead you can remain as a friend. You term with him is over. If you continue following him you will downgrade yourself and lower your esteem before him and the girl. There are lot of men outside who will love, respect and care for you because this guy have no respect for you than embarrassment. Good luck!

She is not faithful to me

Lovelines

I have a girl who has never been faithful to me still I don’t know how I can abandon her because I feel pity for her. She always visits me at home and when she comes she must leave before midnight. Surprise, each time I call her when she leaves my house a man always picks the phone and if she knows that I am the one who is calling she will not pick it.

Charles

If this action is a continuous process, you have to follow her to where she stays to know who and who she stays with. Inquire from her who always picks her call when you call her. Listen to the response of the man that normally pick the call and notice her reaction when you challenge her. With open mind summon courage and tell her that you want the relationship to come to an end while you both remain as a good friend because there is no faithfulness between two of you. Good luck!

16-year, is she still young?

Lovelines

There is a girl in my area I love her with all my heart. She is 16 and I am 21. Recently I sent her a letter to express my feeling for her. It seems she loves me because she always asks for me. Last week she washed my clothes. I want to tell her verbally that I love her but I don’t want to disturb her with love affairs because she is young and as well a student but I am afraid to loose her to another man in future. Can I express my love for her?

Barry

Think very well the girl you are talking about is underage. What a life? Oh, albeit there are some teenagers that however look 23, 24 years old but not a 16-year old. What does such girl know about relationship apart from sex? Take your time browse elsewhere and see girls that are not underage. Forget about loosing her or not, she is young and a student. Remember you will not like your own sister of that age been chasing around by a man in the name of dating, wait till she has pass her adolescent age. Good luck!

Can I stop the relation to save her marriage?

Lovelines

I recently met a caring, loving married girl. I love her but she is married with a daughter but her husband is out of the country for further studies. She loves her husband and talks more about him. Her husband absent caused her to fall in love with me to an extent that my love for her is a threat to her marriage because of the deep love. The husband will return soon. Can I call off this relation now to save her marriage or continue till the husband come because I do not want to break her heart because she deeply loves me.

Walex

Before you set fire to burn anything first text it on your body. If it is you that is not around will you be happy that your wife is dating another man? If this lady knows that she loves you why can’t she divorce and marry you? She praise sings for her husband because you are just a server to her. Quit this relation with immediate effect because it is a threat to her marriage if the husband aware and divorce her, I surely know that you will not marry her. So why engage yourself in what Almighty Allah against, adultery? Once again, quit this ungodly act and seek for forgiveness but remain as a mere friend that can advice and help each other. Good luck!