LOVE LINES - If you leave me I will kill myself

Lovelines

I am going out with a woman I do not love. I know that I will not marry her but I am still hanging-out with her because of sex and money that I am getting from her. Moreover, I don’t want to break her heart by leaving her because she always tells me that if I leave her, she will kill herself. So can I keep on using her or quit?

Dr Ray

I will not reserve my comments because you will still break her heart so far you do not love this woman except her honey body and money, it is better you call it quit. What you will not eat does not smell it because the outcome might be dangerous.

A woman who has been sounding it to your hearing that she will kill herself if you leave her is so mean. The earlier you leave her for good is better, because if you continue with her still you will leave her since you said you can’t married her.

This will then turn to betray. Sincerely, betray or jilt is the unkindest cut of all. Know that "it is love that makes the world go round," said by Gilbert. At the same time ‘she who has never loved has never lived,’ John Gay said. However, what is life without the radiance of love? That’s why you hear or heard that some have died for love. Think of it. Good luck!

She refuses to leave me

Lovelines

I am 21 while my babe’s 19. I really wish she should be my wife because I have decided not to get married to another person except her. In the past I have a problem with her over a rival (her lover boy) because I wanted her to leave him but she said she would not. When she refused I told her to leave me but she said she couldn’t also. So how can I convince her to leave the man? Hence I never love a girl like this before.

Jarju

This is a decision of choice. Meaning that if you are ready to share her with other guy you can continue with her but if no, take a distant. So far you love her and wanted her to leave her lover boy, your rival, and she said no. Remember there is no fear in love but perfect love caste out fear. So do not be afraid of telling a woman that refuse to be with you alone your mind. No needs of convince it is a matter of choice. Good luck!

Men always fails my assessment test

Lovelines

I am a beautiful young lady in my mid-20. It is my dream to have a husband that I will call mine and spend the rest of my life with. But I found it very difficult to accept those that come to my life hence they always fails my assessment test. Please help me.

Roselyn

You need not to worry; the best will come your way. All you need to do is to watch your assessment list against hard rules and conditions. Therefore continue reading Lovelines you will surely find a man to be the lucky one. So guys try as much as possible to live up to expectation so that you can meet up with the assessment list. However, welcome on board to Roselyn via Lovelines. Good luck!

The stranger is a family

Lovelines

It was like a dream when my uncle called me that I have a stranger that wanted to see me. This stranger is a family but we do not know ourselves. He asked for my hands in marriage. I am 21 already deeply in love with someone else. I told him this but he said he would give me chance to think over it. I asked for what he is doing for a living he replied that it is too early for me to ask for that. But my mother say it is a time I should plan for my own life. This man keeps calling. I am confused. Beside I am not ready for marriage now.

Samina

An adage say "if it faces you strike, if it turns back to you strike, but when you are left alone retreat on your thought." So a man that wanted to marry that cannot come out straight to a woman he desired and tells her whom he is, what’s doing for a living than to replied you that it is too early for you to ask, while it is not too early for him to say he want to marry you. Sister, take your time.

Let him know that you have something important lingering in your mind. Your future is most important despite that you are working. According to your mother ‘plan your life’ if you do not want to stand and regret. Cheer up and tell the strange-lover your mind and desire. Good luck!

I am in love with a wrong lady

Lovelines

I am an adult married with children. There is a young divorce woman that I have being in love with that I promised to marry. She also promised to marry me. I cared and take care of her and the child. Suddenly she turns to be a different person I can’t understand. Respect becomes history between both of us while the word love become scarcity in our lips. Despite some ill-love treatment I received from her, I still love her. Since her misbehaviour she still refused to recognise my affection for her. What next for me?

B-N

Love is life, without love, life is not worth living that is the best friend of a loveless pillow where the trouble heart rest. If you understand this you will know that I really sympathise with you when I think over the discussion I had with you over this woman. Give her two more weeks grace for her to make up her mind.

Still if she did not come to her senses and refrained herself from those attitude of hers, mostly her Domitila life style. You got no choice than to kiss her goodbye for good. But she wills one day realised her mistake, but correction will be too late to apply. Although I did not think she would change, but if she did praise be to Almighty. Good luck!

She does everything I want for me

Lovelines

There is a lady I love so much. I placed her in the highest part of my heart. I am 24 and she’s 20. We stay not for from each other and she visits me every two days. The relationship is 3-year old now without hiding from her. Before she used to listens and does everything I want for me. But now that she has moved away to a far place and changed towards me. Whatever I say to her she always replies me with unworthy words like ‘you are crazy or mad.’ If I complain about her changing attitudes, she will say the same thing. I want to forget her but I need an advice.

Sallah

Since you had summoned courage and decided to leave her, fine. Because he who receives the blow knows where it pain. So there is nothing to advise about a lover who called her partner uncomfortable names. So take your leave and separation without qualm. Good luck!

I am not romantic

Lovelines

I am a regular reader of Lovelines. My problem is that I am not just romantic.

Mai

To be a romantic lady or man, you must be someone that is free in mind and have ability to talk, describe or do things in such a way that make it extra attractive. To be a romantic witty lover, try to make yourself free in calling your partner a pet name (e.g. sweet heart, darling, baby-boy/girl, treasure, precious, dear etc), be jovial/humorous (try to crack some jokes or tell stories that will make your partner laugh). Overall wear a smiling face and be friendly always. If you still don’t know how to go about it, don’t hesitate to make the call to Lovelines. Good luck!

He doesn’t want me to know his house

Lovelines

I am 21 years faithful and a discipline girl. Since matured, I have not been in love until now that I started dating a boy who happened to be my first lover. I love him very much but my problem is that; first I do not know how to chat with him. Secondly, we always meet in his friend place he doesn’t want me to know his house. Please help me!

Fasil

To chat with a man you are in love with, you need not to be shy; rather you should make your mind free. See the above (I am not romantic) for more things to do. However, if your lover boy refused you to know his house and used his friend’s house as a base, it is a signal that she did not love you for who you are and who he is . Secondly, there might be a skeleton in his cupboard.

Which means he might probably have a wife or a child that he is keeping away from your knowledge. On careful look, he might just want to use and dump you. Take time to study him. Therefore if you do not want to have yourself blame or ridicule in this relation. Be careful and use your six senses. So take a decision when you know that the road want to go rough. Good luck!

How to express myself

Lovelines

I saw a girl whom I love dearly but I don’t know what to tell her. Can you please give me some Idea, which I can use so that she will appreciate my love?

Abdou

You do not need special idea or Valentine’s special love words before you talk to a lady you love. But self-composure and confidence with little humour matters when approaching a lady. See past editions of Lovelines on how to approach a lady. Every woman or girl is approachable. Try your luck without fear. Good luck!

This is driving me crazy

Lovelines

I am an ardent fan of Lovelines. Formerly we are in the same town but now distant from each other. We are deeply in love before but since our relocation to different town things has went sour between us. I asked her but she said there is no problem. This is driving me crazy because I am in a pit of love.

Kalilu

Love is like that. Sometime it goes without bump or gallop while sometime it goes on a rough way but at the end it will end up in a place.

So the first cause of your problem with her is the change of environment that had made her mixed. She might have therefore found another person that she is in love with at her new location.

One secret of love at times is that some have sight-love that is who they see everyday. Another thing is communication. But her continue saying no problem is because you are far to each other while there is someone over there soothing are loneliness. Therefore increase your level of communication with her and visit before arriving on a final decision. Good luck!

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