Lovelines: Agony Corner

Unexpected action

Loveline,

Two young partners are so much in love, and one day, the guy breaks his promise and quits. The girl suffers from shock because of the unexpected action or decision of the guy. What is your advice for the gal?

Bombeh

If I can understand what you are trying to explain, broken promise, it is not a big deal! Whosoever experiences such disappointments just needs to take heart. Push the matter aside as if it never happened. Although it is a painful situation to bear, you can’t kill yourself just because a man you love disappointed you. Remember if thousands of people die on Saturday night, it is praise the Lord on Sunday morning at the Church when it is time to worship God. Good luck!

Starting anew

Lovelines,

Can you please tell me how to begin a new love?

Cherry

Your text message is not detailed enough that I can give a straight answer. Try as much as possible to send a more detailed text. Let me know about the following: First, is it to begin a new love after one or several disappointments; is it for someone who has never been in love before, or for a partner who separated for some time but later reconciled and so on? So, let me know the category you are referring to. This will help me greatly to answer without wasting much time. Good luck!

Hard of hearing lady

Lovelines,

I am 27, a working class hard of hearing woman. I am still waiting for a man who will love me, and marry me. My choice is unmarried, caring, educated, non-smoking and-drinking, independent gentleman.

Sukuto

This could be your chance if you are a determined, serious and down to heart man. If you match her desires, call Lovelines for detailed info.  Good luck! 

He does not love me

Lovelines,

Please tell me how to go on with my boyfriend. I think he does not love me anymore.

Paulina

You need to resend your text message so that I will know why you think that he does not love you anymore. Because if a man does not love you, naturally there is nothing you can do to make him love you. If coerced, when he gets what he needs from you the love will turn to hatred. The same thing happens if you indulge in using African remote control. Therefore, let Lovelines know what really went wrong between the two of you. Then I can suggest to you what can be done to regain your almost disappeared love. Good luck!

My fiancé doesn’t trust me

Lovelines,

My problem is that my fiancé does not trust me. This is due to the fact that a cousin of mine with whom I share things and move is not serious in her relationship. This made my fiancé to categorise the two of us as one. Because he thinks I am going to follow her steps.

Elizabeth

If your fiancé thinks negatively about you, take it as a challenge to prove him wrong. How will you be able to prove him wrong? You need to be disciplined, trustworthy and honest. Always let your ‘yes’ be ‘yes’ and your ‘no’ be ‘no.’

Let him know that your cousin’s character remains as hers while your character remains as yours. He has no right to judge you by your cousin’s standards. However, you need to sit down together and make things clear to each other.

You can’t keep away from your cousin because of him but you can be careful and conscious about her behaviour. Similarly, you can’t leave your fiancé because of your cousin unless something goes wrong along the line. Good luck!

I need a wife from The Gambia

Lovelines,

I am 38, a Ghanaian citizen, working in one of the High Commissions’ offices in Sierra Leone. I need a stout/fat, kind, and serious woman within the ages of 20-45 who is ready for marriage from The Gambia. She must be working or into a business.

Emmanuel A O Kwofie

Kwofie is interested in you to marry. So if you are interested in him too his address is: Emmanuel A O Kwofie, Ghana High Commission, 13 Walpole Street Freetown, Sierra Leone. Better still you can call Lovelines for more information.

I am scared of woman

Lovelines,

I am a young guy. I am always afraid to ask a girl out or to be my girlfriend. Recently, there was a girl who liked me and I think I like her also. My cousin advised me to talk to her. She said maybe if I talk to her it would chase away my fear of women. Still I do not know what to do.

Lickma

Lack of confidence in yourself is the beginning of your fear for a woman. Try as much as possible to be confident of yourself. If you do, talking to women will be easy for you. Watch a series of love movies and read some romantic novels. This will give you more clues on how to be confident. So you have to summon courage and compose yourself when you see a woman you like. If you find one as you mentioned talk to her and expect one of two answers from her mouth. First it can be ‘yes’, second it can be ‘no’, so do not panic. You must start from somewhere because Rome was not built in a day. The girl is yours, approach her. Good luck!

He wants to come back

Lovelines,

I am a young girl of 20; I was dating a guy whom I thought that loved me. He suddenly changed his mind and switched over to my friend. After he has realized his mistakes he came back to me but I am now dating another guy. Please what can I do?

Sibo

You are not to be blamed. He caused it since he has made a choice by taking a short cut to your friend. Forget about him for life. Don’t sell yourself cheap. If you give him the chance to come back into your life again, he will turn you to a garbage in, garbage out controlled unit.

Continue with your latest date and let him look for the love of his life elsewhere because he is a betrayer. They don’t deserve pity. Sometimes we can give a betrayer a second chance depending on the circumstances and if signs of remorse are portrayed. Therefore, there is nothing you can do other than to remain good friends and exes to each other. That is if you believe in and want to maintain your dignity. Good luck!

How can I test him?

Lovelines,

I deeply fall in love with a man. I really love this man but how can I test his love for me? Aunty It is very easy to test a partner when it comes to love issues. But it is not everyone who can do it without a guide. If you are testing your partner without due care, it might boomerang on you. So to know how you can test your partner, give Loveliness a call for more information and guidance. Hence it is not all clothes that are suitable for drying under the sun. Good luck!

She doesn’t love me

Lovelines,

I love a girl but she doesn’t love me. What can I do?

Jali

There is nothing you can do other than to leave her. Become one of her admirers and friends, in future there might be chance for you. Disturbing her will not make her like you but it will only worsen the issue. Good luck!

I don’t trust women

Lovelines,

I am a regular reader of Lovelines. Now I need a quick answer to my problem. My job always takes me out to a lot of places. Most times, I am alone. I don’t have time for women because I don’t trust them. Recently I found one, she doesn’t ask me for anything. I am confused, I don’t know if she is genuine. Please help.

Kalilou

Well you are not the first person who does not trust women. But if you want to be trusted you will surely trust one if not two. That she is not demanding anything from you does not mean she is bad or good. Know one thing: it is not every woman who likes to ask, depends on a man or begs. So if you are satisfied with her behavior and find her worthy to be your wife, try to strengthen the bond between you. Delaying is dangerous. Give me a call for a deeper talk.

Romantic texts

Isatou

On a normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect gem, which might be far away from me. I’m dying for your love!

Cherno

Kally-J

There is no agony like bearing an untold story inside of you. I love to see a young guy behaving maturely with less control. If you find it in your heart to care for somebody you think you love, you will succeed. Remember unconditional love remains the best.

Mirabel

Serreh

I love you today beyond what words can say. But tomorrow I will love you even more.

Malick

Sambou

Remove those ‘I want you to like me stickers’ from your forehead and instead place them where they truly will do the most good… on your mirror.

Ismaila

Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. The words you choose and their use establish the life I want to experience with you.

Harriet

Rose

Sweaty shining symbol, you are my source of happiness

Suso

Henry

Miracles occur naturally as expressions of love, the real miracle is the love that inspires them. In this sense everything that comes from love is a miracle. The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world. I love you and believe in you.

Gloria

Isatou

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched but are felt in the heart.

(Anonymous – you know who I am)

Readers

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is full of challenges, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it…Lovelines

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