agony corner

Friday, December 5, 2008
I can’t express myself

Lovelines
There is a girl that I really wish to date. She is always in my mind but I don’t know how to approach her. Sometimes I call to express myself to her but I always back off. What can I do?
Abou

Your problem is that you lack self-confidence. To approach a lady, you need to be bold and confident because a faint heart never won a fair lady. Note that he who has self-confidence will surely lead the rest. Therefore summon courage and be confident of yourself but don’t be overconfident. Even if she does not accept try to make sure that you are not jittery when expressing your feelings for her. Not only her but other ladies. Good luck!

In love with my wife’s friend

Lovelines
I am a married man, but deeply fell in love with my wife’s friend.  She wants me to marry her too. My wife always tells me that if I wish to marry another wife, I should marry her friend. She said she prefers sharing her husband with her friend than an unknown girl.  I do not know if this is a wise thing to do.
Morisa

It is never a pleasure for any woman to share her husband. Therefore do not be carried away by words of illusion. I am sure that you have started tampering with your wife’s friend. To save your marriage and yourself from future stress/mess and an unsettled home. It is advisable you keep off from this decision and stop loving your wife’s friend. Think deeply, this might be a setup. How? Women are secretive; she might know that you and her friend are in love. But in order to trap you she can play a wise game. So do away with her friend, browse for another person if you are hungry for a second wife. Good luck!

He’s 14 years older than me

Lovelines
I have found a man whom I love so much. This guy is 14 years older than I am.  Moreover he is my teacher. I am a grade 9 student. Your support is highly needed.

Sajie

Whether this guy is older than you or not is not the issue. But the issue is that you are still young – a grade 9 student. You need to be ambitious. Plan your life and think of what you want to become in the nearest future. Try to concentrate on your education so that in the future you will become independent instead of being a liability to another man.
If you get married to this man without a good grade in your final examinations, he will drop you and marry another woman.
I could only advise you to marry him if had been in your final year at the university. Think over this, the man is not a good teacher; if he was, he would plan for you to achieve a better future. So think over this and plan for your future. Good luck!

Emergency lover

Lovelines
I am 21 dying of jealousy. The man I have been dating for one-and-half year confessed that he has been cheating on me for the past months. This hurt me. Then I made a stupid mistake by accepting another man’s love. Sincerely I don’t love this emergency new lover. I accepted only to tell and show my guy that I am also cheating on him. But now I am scare to lose him because I love him.

Jatou

I am not convinced that you love him. But I believe that he loves you more than you love him. Since the man could confess to you that he was cheating on you without duress or any form of force, he loves you. All he needs from you is forgiveness and caring. So if you lose him to another girl, you deserve it because you lack forgiveness and caring. If you love him, forget your emergency lover man and go back to him. Do not tell him that you have cheated on him immediately but try to win back his heart. Tell him how you will like the love between you to continue. Call Lovelines for further information. Good luck!

I am in trouble

Lovelines
I am in trouble. My boyfriend loves me but he pretends that he does not. I therefore left him because I thought he does not love me. I also pretended that I do not love him. None of us want the other to know that we still love each other.
Fatou

If you still love him and know that he does as well, swallow your pride and call him. If you know that you are feeling ashamed to make the first move, send him a text that you are slightly indisposed but it is necessary you see him. If he loves you, he will surely be with you within a short period. Try it tonight; it is a good dose for reconciliation. If you don’t understand the logic, call Lovelines for more information. Good luck!

I am searching

Lovelines
I am a young guy (mid 20s) still searching for the love of my life. I am educated and yet to have a decent, faithful, honest thin or fat girl for marriage.
Ebou

Lovelines
I was just surfing through the paper as usual and came across your column. It is really superb. I am 35, an easy-going guy who loves to meet people and exchange Ideas. I will like to meet a down to earth female, aged 25 – 40 as friend.
Abdou

Are you a charming and friendly lady? Well if you are and interested to be friends/partners with either Ebou or Abdou, call Lovelines for more information. Good luck!



Romantic texts

Abbey
If a star should fall every time I miss you, all stars in heaven would go. If there is no star tonight, it is your fault because you make me miss you so much.
Fadi

Lawal

It is a thing of joy to be in love with someone who understands what it means and what it takes to be in love; good day and have a nice day. Thinking of you always!

Baby-Penda

Precious

I have been a common man and a poor man; and there has been no romance for me till I met you. I know poverty is no disgrace to any man.  Thank you for effectively rinsing me from this. You are special and God sent. I will always love you.

Kijera

Baby-I

If only you could open up my heart to see how sincere my love is. I admit I am a jerk for loving you the way I did. If it is true you ever fell in love with me, please come back to me. I miss you so much. Remember our pet names ‘Sweet heart and my love.’
S-Boy

Lady-Aisha

In my life I have learned to be honest, to be obedient, to be faithful, to be caring, and to love but I cannot learn to miss you. Please I am tired of missing you!
Stephen

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Author: Yunus Salieu