Lovelines: He is angry with me

Lovelines

My boyfriend is angry with me because he called me at night and I wanted him to call me back at 2.00 am because I was chatting with someone on the phone during the late night free call.  Since then he has not be pleased with me.

Ramou

Try to visit him and explain to him what has caused you to post him till 2.00am for chat. He will surely understand you, although he will like to protest. All you need to do is to hold him closer to your chest and stroke his head with a good kiss! This will left him no option than to calm down and end it up with love smiles. Good luck!


He is a womanizer

Lovelines

I am in the same class with a boy that always looks at me with sexy eyes that I don’t like. He smiles to me always and once sent one of his friends to me that I should try to look into his eyes. He told my friends that he love me. I do not fall for him easily until after my quest about him. In my quest, I heard he is a womanizer, he even have a girlfriend in the school one of his friends that is very closer to both of us confirmed this.  Now I have feeling for him but the other girl is in enemy camp that I do not want to have anything with her to avoid problem. This makes me sick, what should I do because I love him.

Ida

The earlier you forget this guy the better if you want to avoid pandemonium. So wait for a better lover that will love you with his one heart. But if you know that you are ready to share him with other girls without complain and at the same time you are ready for love’s battle play your card very well and stole his heart from them. But at the end do not complain of the consequence. Good luck!

Is there any secret to apply?

I am a young girl looking 3 years older than my age- if you see me. There is a guy I had a crush for. We later on date but after 10 months of dating, I had no feelings for him anymore, maybe am sick of seeing him but he  still loves me. I do like him too but a little.  What can I do to love him as before? Is there any secret for this?  

Dora

In first instance what you feel for him is infatuation nothing more, although you date, yes, nothing bad in that. The reason for that is such love as it is in the society is only the exchange of two fantasies, and the contact of two bodies. And any love that start with intense circumstances always end abruptly. So if you want to love him like before again, absent yourself from him because absence makes the heart grow fonder. And during the period of absent from him try to think of what is good about him and always have his image in your memory. Do not break your communication with him instead increase it and discuss sensual words with him. Give a call if you don’t understand this. Good luck!

I don’t know if she loves me

Lovelines

I have a girl friend which I don’t know if she loves me or not. What will I do to know if she loves me?

Bobby

Read the above “how to decide if he/she love you” and compare the present situation between two of you to what you read. Good luck!

I am interested in my lecturer

Lovelines

I am a young lady. I am interested in a man who is my school’s lecturer. I did not disclose to him about my desire for him. But yesterday, he called me and said “I will be getting married tomorrow.” What should I do? I can’t afford to miss him, we always chats. Should I tell him that I love him?

Ma-fati

There is nothing worse than the loss of money. So accept it as a loss desire and take away your mind from loving him. He has already told you that he is getting married. Expressing your feeling for him now can not turn back the hands of the clock but will only cause damage to it. First you can’t change his mind, secondly you can not have him for yourself again but you can only become second wife if you wish to share him with another woman. So let bygone be a bygone, if he loves you to be his wife he could have approach you long before he took his wedding decision. Good luck!

No information about her

Lovelines

It is almost one year that I have been dating my girlfriend. Surprisingly, since last two months we were out of contact from each other. I keep asking for her but no information about her. How can I get her because I wonder if I will get another girl and how?

Gibbeh

Well, it is you who know the strength of love between two of you. But I know if there is truly strong love existing between two of you, she will definitely let you know about his whereabouts. This is a modern life talk to her on the phone. Moreover, be confidence, go to their house and ask for her. Still if there is no good result, means there must be something hidden but you does not know about. Then look for another girl. Good luck!

My wife is far away from me

Lovelines

I am married to my heart desire that has traveled to Europe for over two years. Before, she does call me regularly, but now the gaps compare to before is very wide.  She did not say when she will come back neither did she invite me for a visit. My parents are advising me to get marry to a second wife. But I found it difficult to tell her that I am going to take a new wife.

Mustapha

You need to be patient with her. Traveling is an adventure that takes time mostly leaving offshore of your country to another man’s land to seek for greener pastures abroad compare to those that just went for only study or holiday. Anyway I do not know if you have child or children. If you does concentrate on your children and take good care of them till she will come back.

And if you don’t have any yet try to endure till she call, when she did call ask her when she will be coming back because you miss her and that you feel it is time for you two to have at least a child for a start. So tell your parents to give you time to sort out things with your wife. Then if you know that you can’t bear any more patient the better you tell her the truth that her not around is about to drive you away and take a decision of getting another wife in which you do not want. But I will like you to put yourself in your wife shoes first before any action. Good luck!

Lovelines

I am a young guy of 25. It is three months that I have been dating a girl. I chose her because it was over a year that it takes me to study her. Now I am disappointed in the relationship because she never visited me despite all invitations I have been extending to her. Now I am doubt if she loves me or not because I am confused.

Mande

Patience is all it takes. Give her more time, as you studied her before approaching her, she might as well put you under surveillance for the time being. Read above on “how to decide if he/she loves you” then check the area you feel not enough or lacking and then try to make a correction if possible. Good luck!