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Friday, May 23, 2008
Lovelines
My love life is full of up and down. I got married to the love of my heart few years back. Unfortunately we broke up for 2-year. We later reconcile and have a happy home once again with a blessed sweet baby girl. But my in-laws does not like me, I don’t know what I have done to deserve hatred from them. They succeeded in getting my husband another wife this has turns my happy home to a hell. I am contemplating on separation because I am confused I don’t know what to do.
Kinneh
It is not a new thing it does happen (to women) almost in all marriage. Anyway I want you to know that all in-laws are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable. The problem here is not only within your in-laws but what about your husband, what led to your first separation from him for good two solid years before your reconciliation? Are you satisfied all along with his behavior before they married another wife for him despite having happy home? What was his reaction when they married a wife for him and his behavior towards you now that he is having two wives? There are many questions you need to find the answers. So breaking up the relationship is not the solution that will arrest your in-laws fight and the rival who is stirring your home apart, but ability to be patient, endure and observe to know the approach to apply. Give a call should in case you do not understand these three words. Good luck!
She wants me to kiss her
Lovelines
I love her but she is older than me and she like my life style. Last night she said to me ‘I want you to kiss me" but I did not. Instead I requested the same thing from her but she didn’t as well. What do you thing I suppose to do because she has won my heart.
Emily
Age is not a barrier where there is love; to everyone old age is always 15 years than you are. So set in the fire and light the candle of love so that it can burn and melt you together. Old ones know more about love than the young ones. So don’t tell me you ate kissing, give to her in dozen packs. Congratulation and Good luck!
He keeps another woman secretly
Lovelines
I want to quit this relation. I am dating a guy who at the same time in loves with another girlfriend for the past 3 years (secretly). I knew this last week because I met the girl in his room – live! He did not deny their relationship rather he says he love me more than the lady but he can’t leave her because of me still he promise not to break my heart. But I love him.
Dindin
If you still love him forget about quit and look for how you can win his heart. But I do not think that he love you as he claimed because if he really does he will agree to dump her for you in your present just to please you and continue secretly. Hence he declined your request and said he can’t leave her for you, it is a glaring testimony that is confirmed – he does not love you but using you probably because he is taken your advantage. So let it stick into your skull that he will not marry you. All you are having now is just fun. Think twice and stop living in illusion. Good luck!
Pinkbus
Hi Pinkbus, thanks for your series of text Lovelines will like you to call. Enjoy your Weekend Observer as usual. Happy weekend!
I am not happy with this relationship…I always visit him at night
Lovelines
I am a young girl of 22. I love my boyfriend dearly. He chased me for a very long time before I accepted to his date. Initially I knew he was having a girlfriend that loves him very much. His family member knows this girl because she is a good friend to his sister.
His parents does not know me as much because our relationship is one-year-old and it is only at night that I always go there while his relationship with the other girlfriend is 3 years old and she is frequent to his house. When I saw the girl with my boyfriend’s sister I told him to continue with his old girlfriend and leave me because I don’t think I can fit into his family. But he objected to my suggestion and said that he loves me still he can’t let go his old girlfriend. However, I am not happy with this relation I am totally confused
Ajaratou
Love is a thing from the heart so there is no disguise that can hide it where it exists. Since you dearly love him why don’t you tell him your mind that you can not be in hide and seek love any more? Going there at night or probably not very free in his house just to avoid the sight of his parents is like you don’t worth to marry him. But to be happy with yourself it is better you quit this relation for good though you do not explain deep but I can understand your feeling and what you are experiencing. Reason for you to quit is because his relationship with the other girl is older than yours and the lady has gained ground in his house compare to you. If you know that you are just dating not for marriage continues but if for marriage sake kiss him good bye unless you feel like try harder because no one knows, you might have been destined together. Good luck!
She is older than me
Lovelines
I am a married man dating a woman older than me. I decided to leave her but she refused to let me go. According to her she love and like me sexually and she want us to marry.
Bala
I don’t think you should have gut to complain about her not let you go. You should have known better that any married man who date a single woman older than him will not be able to quit because such woman believe you understand the game and how to manipulate your wife and come to her. However, she can only control and not let you go but she can not control your mind. So far your mind is still with her you will not be able to leave her. But if really you want to leave her it is just for you to decide and take away your mind from her. Restrict yourself from her gradually. You know most things he likes in you. But if you are ready to marry two wives nothing bad in that. Hence you love her and she loves you too. Good luck!
Help before I run crazy
Lovelines
There is a girl I love I approached her but she said that she is in love with someone who she is going to marry. So I don’t know what to do please help me on the next action before I run crazy.
Lamin
Running crazy because some do not love you is like you have no future ambition. If you do no matter how you love him or her so far the person told you that some is there for him or her to tie the knot with, please come down and relax. Browse very well you see beautiful, single and caring one that will say ‘oh! I love you and I will die for you." Think of this and drink from the water peace and friendship. Good luck!
My love life is full of up and down. I got married to the love of my heart few years back. Unfortunately we broke up for 2-year. We later reconcile and have a happy home once again with a blessed sweet baby girl. But my in-laws does not like me, I don’t know what I have done to deserve hatred from them. They succeeded in getting my husband another wife this has turns my happy home to a hell. I am contemplating on separation because I am confused I don’t know what to do.
Kinneh
It is not a new thing it does happen (to women) almost in all marriage. Anyway I want you to know that all in-laws are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable. The problem here is not only within your in-laws but what about your husband, what led to your first separation from him for good two solid years before your reconciliation? Are you satisfied all along with his behavior before they married another wife for him despite having happy home? What was his reaction when they married a wife for him and his behavior towards you now that he is having two wives? There are many questions you need to find the answers. So breaking up the relationship is not the solution that will arrest your in-laws fight and the rival who is stirring your home apart, but ability to be patient, endure and observe to know the approach to apply. Give a call should in case you do not understand these three words. Good luck!
She wants me to kiss her
Lovelines
I love her but she is older than me and she like my life style. Last night she said to me ‘I want you to kiss me" but I did not. Instead I requested the same thing from her but she didn’t as well. What do you thing I suppose to do because she has won my heart.
Emily
Age is not a barrier where there is love; to everyone old age is always 15 years than you are. So set in the fire and light the candle of love so that it can burn and melt you together. Old ones know more about love than the young ones. So don’t tell me you ate kissing, give to her in dozen packs. Congratulation and Good luck!
He keeps another woman secretly
Lovelines
I want to quit this relation. I am dating a guy who at the same time in loves with another girlfriend for the past 3 years (secretly). I knew this last week because I met the girl in his room – live! He did not deny their relationship rather he says he love me more than the lady but he can’t leave her because of me still he promise not to break my heart. But I love him.
Dindin
If you still love him forget about quit and look for how you can win his heart. But I do not think that he love you as he claimed because if he really does he will agree to dump her for you in your present just to please you and continue secretly. Hence he declined your request and said he can’t leave her for you, it is a glaring testimony that is confirmed – he does not love you but using you probably because he is taken your advantage. So let it stick into your skull that he will not marry you. All you are having now is just fun. Think twice and stop living in illusion. Good luck!
Pinkbus
Hi Pinkbus, thanks for your series of text Lovelines will like you to call. Enjoy your Weekend Observer as usual. Happy weekend!
I am not happy with this relationship…I always visit him at night
Lovelines
I am a young girl of 22. I love my boyfriend dearly. He chased me for a very long time before I accepted to his date. Initially I knew he was having a girlfriend that loves him very much. His family member knows this girl because she is a good friend to his sister.
His parents does not know me as much because our relationship is one-year-old and it is only at night that I always go there while his relationship with the other girlfriend is 3 years old and she is frequent to his house. When I saw the girl with my boyfriend’s sister I told him to continue with his old girlfriend and leave me because I don’t think I can fit into his family. But he objected to my suggestion and said that he loves me still he can’t let go his old girlfriend. However, I am not happy with this relation I am totally confused
Ajaratou
Love is a thing from the heart so there is no disguise that can hide it where it exists. Since you dearly love him why don’t you tell him your mind that you can not be in hide and seek love any more? Going there at night or probably not very free in his house just to avoid the sight of his parents is like you don’t worth to marry him. But to be happy with yourself it is better you quit this relation for good though you do not explain deep but I can understand your feeling and what you are experiencing. Reason for you to quit is because his relationship with the other girl is older than yours and the lady has gained ground in his house compare to you. If you know that you are just dating not for marriage continues but if for marriage sake kiss him good bye unless you feel like try harder because no one knows, you might have been destined together. Good luck!
She is older than me
Lovelines
I am a married man dating a woman older than me. I decided to leave her but she refused to let me go. According to her she love and like me sexually and she want us to marry.
Bala
I don’t think you should have gut to complain about her not let you go. You should have known better that any married man who date a single woman older than him will not be able to quit because such woman believe you understand the game and how to manipulate your wife and come to her. However, she can only control and not let you go but she can not control your mind. So far your mind is still with her you will not be able to leave her. But if really you want to leave her it is just for you to decide and take away your mind from her. Restrict yourself from her gradually. You know most things he likes in you. But if you are ready to marry two wives nothing bad in that. Hence you love her and she loves you too. Good luck!
Help before I run crazy
Lovelines
There is a girl I love I approached her but she said that she is in love with someone who she is going to marry. So I don’t know what to do please help me on the next action before I run crazy.
Lamin
Running crazy because some do not love you is like you have no future ambition. If you do no matter how you love him or her so far the person told you that some is there for him or her to tie the knot with, please come down and relax. Browse very well you see beautiful, single and caring one that will say ‘oh! I love you and I will die for you." Think of this and drink from the water peace and friendship. Good luck!
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